This list is just a start—a guide to some of the most important ways we can change to achieve equality.
1. Our attitudes must change
First and foremost, our attitudes must change—the way we think about gender roles, the way we think about parenthood, the way we think about leadership, power, money, intellect. All of it is overdue for change.
The notion that the office is a man’s territory and the home a woman’s is outdated and damaging. It cultivates boys’ clubs, excuses harassment and discrimination, and ultimately confines both women and men to boxes difficult to break. It’s backward to uphold the idea that mothers and fathers cannot be committed to both work and family in equal measure, that women are best suited for roles like communication and caregiving and men for mathematics and scientific research. This feels elementary, but it’s an omnipresent toxin even in 2019.
2. We have to parent equally
Women still take on the bulk of childcare and household duties in the United States. Mothers spend 75 percent more time on childcare and 80 percent more time doing housework than do fathers—and in many cases that mother also does paid work full time. We must better share the responsibilities of life.
And employers have to help this happen with “hard” policies, like parental leave policies that give ample time to both father and mother, the ability to work remotely and structure your workday, and “soft” policies like supportive leadership that sets the temperature of the workplace, and an office culture that supports the role of parent as much as it does the role of professional.
Until we change the way we think about parenthood, we cannot break the cycle of gender inequality in the workplace.
3. Companies must hire and promote women to the highest levels of the organization
Women comprise more than half of the U.S. population, they earn more undergraduate and master’s degrees than men do, they account for 47 percent of the American labor force—and yet women are woefully underrepresented in leadership and executive roles.
Despite well-publicized gender diversity initiatives—companies like Microsoft (3.4 stars), General Electric (3.4 stars), Airbnb (3.7 stars), and Johnson & Johnson (4.0 stars) have all committed to better gender diversity in their workforces—we’ve made little to no progress in gender diversity in the workplace.
4. We have to create gender-balanced workforces from top to bottom
Not only must we ensure women exist at the highest levels of corporate leadership, we must also ensure that out workforces are gender balanced from top to bottom.
For example, Virgin Money UK has decided to fight its gender pay gap by committing to gender balance in the workforce. Not only does the company seek women for management and executive roles, it recruits men at the entry level as well. By committing to gender balance, Virgin Money is not only getting closer to closing the pay gap, it is also able to take full advantage of labor force diversity and talent.
5. We have to pay women and men equally
For every dollar a man earned in the United States, a woman earns 80 cents. For mothers who also do paid work, women who are disabled, and for most women of color, the gap is even larger.
We know there is a gender pay gap, we know there has always been a gender pay gap, and yet we are still a century away from achieving equal pay.
Eighty-three percent of women say American businesses are not doing enough to close the gender pay gap, and while our federal government prohibits wage discrimination on the basis of gender, companies are still not required to disclose pay statistics.
6. We have to listen to women
For so long, workplaces have been designed to suit the needs of men.
Take, for example, the typical workday. Monday through Friday 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. (but usually longer) in a brick-and-mortar office is hardly ideal for anyone who takes care of children. While women have been, and still are, the primary caregivers in the family, the American office has made little to no change in response to women’s entrance into the workforce.
Until we take seriously what women want from their employers, what they need, what makes them stay, we cannot hope to end gender inequality in the workplace.